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Building Mike a Home In Community

Read Mike's Bio at Coho Cohousing

Born in a small town in Southern Illinois in 1954, Mike was like most kids. He loved playing outdoors, climbing trees, playing sports and swimming in the river. He was a happy kid who grew into a happy adult. He took his love of the outdoors and channeled it into a degree in forestry. In 1977, at 23 and having just graduated from college, he started experiencing numbness in his hands, losing his balance and had a sudden change in his vision. After ten days of testing, Mike was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. MS is believed to be an autoimmune disease that affects the central nervous system. With MS, the nerve-insulating myelin is damaged leaving scars and lesions. The symptoms can be moderate to severe.

Mike continued to try and live a normal life, adapting to the changes his body was going through. He got a job in forestry and continued doing all the physical activities he loved. His life changed and his MS progressed more rapidly than Mike could ever imagine. By age 27 he was walking with crutches, yet he found strength in himself he hadn't known existed. He tried continuing to run, bike and ski and became a master at adapting. While skiing, when his legs stopped supporting his weight he used outriggers; ski tips on the end of elbow crutches so he could keep flying down the hills. When his arms could no longer support his body weight, he used a sit ski, a plastic sled with small plastic poles to support his weight. And it was only when the cold became too much that Mike finally gave it up.

In 1986 he moved to Corvallis, Oregon and, in 1989, he pursued a degree in English as a Second Language. He taught for a couple of years. Then, in 1992 at age 37, Mike needed to stop work altogether.

He started receiving home care services, gradually working up to needing a caregiver 24 hours a day. Mike is now 52, has no voluntary movement from below his neck, and is legally blind. Mike is also one of the most optimistic people you could ever meet. With every loss Mike experienced, he found a peace in accepting the changes in his life. He turned his frustrations into advocacy work and is a passionate advocate for disability issues.

Mike has an incredibly positive outlook on life; however, like other adults with severe disabilities, he struggles with the isolation his disability can cause. "I can remember trying to maintain abilities such as running, skiing, biking, canoeing, and finally walking," Mike says. "While I was losing these skills, I was also losing my friends who were connected with these activities."

Over the past three years, he has been active in helping create a cohousing community, CoHo Ecovillage, in Corvallis, Oregon. Through Mike's years of participation, he has developed many solid friendships and been a significant contributor to the success of the organization. Ironically, Mike, like many people whose financial resources are limited due to physical disabilities, has always known he couldn't afford to buy a home and live in this community.

A Home In Community is a non-profit organization formed in February 2007 to help provide housing to low-income adults with disabilities. Our first campaign, A Home for Mike, is raising the funds to support an ADA-accessible unit in CoHo that will always be rented at subsidized rates to low-income individuals with disabilities . . . beginning with Mike! Donations made today will benefit Mike (as our first tenant), the neighbors who receive the gift of his companionship, and the many people with disabilities who will have the opportunity to rent this home at subsidized rates in the future.


Comments From CoHo Members About Mike


"I remember a time when a group of us were sharing feelings and Mike expressed regret that he wasn't able to do much for CoHo. Those of us in the circle were stunned and didn't know what he was talking about. What did he mean he didn't do much? Then we realized he didn't know what he meant to us. He is at every meeting and social gathering and is always supportive, adding his calm wisdom with a smile. His arms and legs may not work but his heart and mind are alive and well. Without Mike, we would lose some of the spirit of our community."
-- Juva --

" I was just remembering one of the general meetings where we were asked to introduce ourselves and share something we dreamed we'd be doing when we got moved into our homes. Two responses stayed with me and struck me as being beautiful: Mike said he dreamed of climbing the old oak tree and someone else said that they would be taking pictures of Mike climbing the oak tree. Mike certainly taught us that there are no dreams too big to be dreamed."
-- Maureen --

" Mike is a Chicago White Sox baseball fan. Growing up in the area he followed the team, both in person and through the newspaper. He has continued being a Chicago fan while living in Oregon. He was thrilled when the Sox won the 2005 World Series and he's hoping they'll do it again in 2007."
-- Denny --

" How to describe Mike's effect on me? Mike models grace in living. He manages the complexity of his life with such grace and efficiency that it awes me. Mike and I have worked together on two committees since 2004 so I feel that I know him fairly well. He shows up to committee meetings on time and with a smile; he contributes positively and is one of the workhorses of the Landscaping committee. He always has the wellbeing of the community in mind and brings us back when we stray. Mike is part of the community and he has a house in my heart. And besides all that, Mike is a handsome guy with a beautiful smile. "
-- Nancy --

“Mike is a very good friend that we have the honor of knowing. He is an inspiration and is truly a joy to be around for many reasons. Although he may be weak in body he is mentally strong and honest, straightforward and friendly. Mike is easy to talk to about any issue (even those sensitive personal issues). This makes it easy to get to know him and find out that even though he's in a wheel chair and has a handicap he truly is not any different from us. We have attended movies, musical events and meetings and have had many a side conversation with him. Mike is truly dedicated to our earth and to those with whom he interacts. He focuses on ways to make the world a better place to live a healthier life not only for the handicapped (which he advocates for) but for all people. He actively engages in conversations with Nathan (our son) and lets him see that all people are different yet capable in their own way. He illustrates how being handicapped (which we all are to some extent) doesn't mean you can't be successful. Mike is very conscious that he relies on those around him and he makes every effort to make their job easier whenever he can. He is very open and communicative concerning his handicap and helpful in having those around him better understand the situation of being handicapped without trying to elicit sympathy. He once indicated that he is very conscious about his eating habits not only for his own health but so that it makes the job of his care-givers easier by making him lighter to lift. Once you meet Mike, it's hard not to become his friend - he is a true asset to the Coho community. We very much look forward to getting to know him even better as our neighbor.”
--Marcy & Robert--